Friday, September 11, 2009

When Will It Stop?

Edit: Written on Thursday, Sept. 10, finally edited today.

What a week! We thought last week was crazy. We bought a car after spending the last two years as a one car family.

There was more craziness to come. Jason's division of AIG was sold on Saturday. Tuesday, Jason's bosses' boss called and offered him a regional manager position in the New York Manhattan office of the new Company. Oh my...what a shock. It was a huge promotion, but it would take him into a career path that diverges from what he is doing now. We both went to the Lord in serious prayer and decided that he would decline the position. His bosses's boss was very gracious and told Jason anytime he wanted to move to NYC he would make it happen. It was huge compliment to be offered the job. Jason talked it over with his boss here. His position here is not being eliminated, they just thought Jason would be a good fit for the job. So we are staying where we are for now. It has become obvious to us that any job advancement for Jason will include a move to NYC. The ironic thing is that we were so ready to move to NYC two years ago, but it would be much harder right now.

Jason and I did talk about preparing the kids for a move would be better than hitting them with it out of the blue. When we told our daughter about the job offer, she immediately said, "No, we just got settled here." This morning, I talked to her about how we were not moving right now, but that we might move in a couple of years. I told her about some of the fun things NYC has to offer such as the theater and museums. She enjoyed talking about those things. She is such a trooper. We do try to include her in conversations that affect her. She is a special little girl. My son's take on the whole thing was, if he could take his tractors, he would be fine.

In other news, I started a new Bible study this morning. It is called Shepherding Your Child's Heart by Ted Tripp. I'm so excited. I love the subject matter. We are encouraged to do scripture memory. I so need that! We are also broken into small groups of 5 ladies. I have been lamenting to God that I didn't feel like I had any close friends here. The ladies in the group expressed the same need. I am excited about the possibility making new friends that are deeper than, "Hello, how are you" type friends. I love my college friends, but I don't get to see them nearly enough.  Being in three different states doesn't help.   I have one college friend that lives here, but we both have young families and we look up and wonder where the time went. 
We are completing the adjustment to school. My daughter is cranky when she gets home from school. I am hoping that will smooth out soon. There are some days she is downright mean to me when she gets home. I can only guess that the crankiness comes from using every ounce of her self control at school.  She is used up when she gets home. We are dealing with that and I am praying for it to get better.   I guess my Bible study Shepherding Your Child's Heart is right on time.   Thank you Lord!
My son is enjoying gymnastics. I am blogging while watching his class. The past two weeks he would not jump on the trampoline with the excuse that his legs hurt. He is a jumping fool right now on it. He has tried to use the towel bar in the bathroom as a parallel bar. Thankfully he didn't rip it out of the wall.
My daughter may be getting a new violin in the next month. She has done a lot of growing this summer. She doesn't know it yet, but I know she will be so excited.   She seems to make progress in spurts.   She will cruise along, then she gets a little lazy, doesn't put much effort into practicing, and I see progress slow.  She just got a new song to learn.   She is really excited about it and this one is coming along easily. 
Next week is exciting because they will celebrate Grandparent's day at school. My Mom and Grandmother are planning to go. My daughter is so excited to get to eat lunch with them.

Friday, September 4, 2009

Another One Bites the Dust

Edit: I wrote this on Friday and edited today. Please pray for Jason and I, we are facing a huge decision this week.

I had every intention to post more than just on Fridays. This has been another crazy busy week. Wednesday, we kicked off MOPS at our church. It was a good time. We had lots of new ladies as well as lots of familiar faces. Our pastor's wife spoke to us about thriving not just surviving on Planet Mom. Planet Mom is the theme of MOPS International this year. The theme boils down to the idea that when you have a child, it seems as if you move to another planet, planet Mom. What I loved about our pastor's wife's talk was her first point. It was even though we are on planet Mom our lives should still revolve around the Son. Jesus is what we need to make it through the days of this crazy world we live in. Her other points were good as well, but I love that she talked about the importance of a relationship with Jesus in her first point.

Last weekend I went to the Living Proof Simulcast held at my church. I absolutely love to listen to Beth Moore. She has wonderful insight into the scriptures. Beth is so humble and funny as well that it makes for an enriching, fun experience.

After my daughter started school, it became apparent that life would be a lot easier with two cars. This week we decided to buy a second car. We ended up buying a Suburban...the Texas Cadallic. It killed me to buy such a gas guzzling vehicle. We needed such a larger vehicle to tow a boat. We planned to wait a year or two to buy a boat, but found a good deal on a used boat, so we ended up getting that as well this week. Yes, I feel like I have bled money this week. We've been saving for a car for the past two years. We gave our other car away when we moved from Florida. We were able to pay for the boat out of our savings as well. I feel such a tension to want to sacrifice and pay off Jason's student loans from graduate school early and living life. Jason feels that he has some job stability for now. This encouraged us to go ahead and get the boat. We both love the water and being on the water. Having a boat is something we talked about before we were married. So instead of fancy vacations, we plan to have good quality family time on the boat. It is a cabin boat, so we can also sleep on the boat. We are very excited.

As far as the car until now, it has worked to share a car. Jason works close to our home. I would just drop him off at work and go about my day. I homeschooled my daughter and had very few commitments outside the home. Most of our activitites are within a 7 mile radius of our house, we really didn't need a second car until now. My husband's hours are also very flexible. So, I could drop him off earlier or later to make the schedule work out as well. We hope to take the boat out this weekend and try it out. Jason has to replace the trailer brakes today. We still plan to share our smaller car as much as we can to minimize the amount of gas we burn driving the larger car. Thursdays are a good example. I have to take my son to gymnamstics and my daughter to violin. When we come home, I'll drive right by Jason's office, so I'll plan to take him and pick him up that day.

It has been another busy week, looking forward to a wonderful Labor Day.